Etiquette

I want our time together to be fun and safe for both of us! This means that I won’t engage in any activity that might jeopardize our health or our physical or emotional well-being. It also means that I want us both to communicate about our desires and boundaries and agree to respect them. I’ll ask before doing anything to you, and I expect you to do the same for me.

As a companion, I strive to create a space that feels like a sanctuary from your day to day life—our own little paradise for as long as we’re together. To help facilitate that, I ask that we mutually respect each others’ privacy and keep our time together separate from our personal lives. This means that I’ll never share your information with anyone, and if I run into you in public, I likely won’t say hi unless both of us are alone. I’d like to be given the same courtesy, and to be treated with the same respect and discretion that you would give any other professional.

I pride myself on communicating openly and effectively, and I always appreciate it when you make an effort to reciprocate. This applies both before and during our meeting—if you’re running late or need to cancel, please send me a quick message letting me know! I’ll do my best to be flexible and accommodating. During our meeting, please feel free to speak up about any likes, dislikes, desires, and boundaries you have, and I’ll do the same.

Hygiene

I’ll arrive to our date freshly showered, and I expect you to be as well. If you need to freshen up when you arrive, you’re welcome to use my shower. My place is also fully stocked with everything you need to look and feel your best.

Donations

I prefer to get the financial component of our date out of the way in the beginning of our meeting, so that we can start enjoying each others’ company right away. Please hand me the donation upon arrival, or place it somewhere visible at the beginning of the date. If we’re meeting in public, please put the donation in a greeting card, gift bag, or book and discreetly give it to me that way. Please don’t make me ask you for the donation.

Deposits

In order to secure your date, I ask that you please send a 20% deposit in advance. This is applied towards your donation, and allows me to hold time in my schedule for you. Deposits can be sent via Venmo, Cash App, cryptocurrency (Bitcoin or Ethereum only), or Amazon gift card.

I totally understand that stuff happens, and sometimes you have to cancel plans. However, if something comes up, please let me know as soon as possible so that I can adjust my schedule accordingly. If you cancel within 48 hours of our date, I’ll either keep your deposit, or if you haven’t sent a deposit yet, I’ll ask you to send me a 20% cancelation fee instead. If you choose to “no call, no show,” I’ll expect to receive the full donation for the date you missed in advance of any future meetings.